[Q] When you came to your house, it was business as usual. Nobody asked you about, 'Had you...'

That's true, yes. I was... of course it was a point of honour to me also, I mean that I wouldn't make a big deal out of this, so I just arrived there and of course they all imagined I'd come on the train and - so, I didn't talk about it until a few days later. But in any case, I mean my family was also quite supportive, but we didn't have this sort of the ritualised family life which I found so attractive. And I believe one reason why I've married a German wife - because these Jews were really Germans, although I thought it was sort of specifically Jewish, but a lot of this warmth was actually more German than Jewish in a way, because the German people who are not Jewish are just the same - and so I have this German wife who organises the family in the same sort of way.