I remember meeting up with a woman in the advertising business- I hadn't seen her for, for several years- and as we were about to have lunch- we were travelling in the taxi in our way to the restaurant- I remember her telling me that she had a two-and-a-half year old child and, and I thought- goodness, I've forgotten what her husband did. I said- what does your husband do. She says- oh, I don't have a husband, but I'll tell you more when we get to the restaurant. So we got to the restaurant and she said- you know, I, I was getting into that age where I wasn't about to have any children and I wasn't about to really get married that soon. And so one day I expressed, she said- my anxiety to my best friend- this young woman from- visiting her from the far west- and suddenly this woman, this friend of hers, her eyes kind of lit up and she said, she said- what about my husband? And so I said- well, how did you do it? And she says- oh, the old fashioned way. And it was the most beautiful story of the most beautiful gift that somebody can give somebody. And that too has, among other things, has, has led a desire on my own part to, to film people doing good things for one another.