One of the great joys of Japan, of course, is the traditional costumes, the churches, if I can call them that, pagodas, the costumes that they wear, flower arranging, all of these things were a delight to watch and see, and we learnt a great deal about the customs.
On one occasion Geoff Sykes had actually, in Leeds, had a Japanese student, and he had gone back and later had got married, and he’d actually timed the wedding so that we would be in town at the time and we were invited to this wedding. It was a thrilling experience for us because the bride and others were in traditional dress and I had, in this case it wasn’t Takeda it was another chap, Saito... Kazuo Saito, he was the Master of Ceremonies. And I said, ‘Well, you know, I’ve been invited will I have to say something?’ Oh no, perfectly all right.
But when we got there we found that this was a 13-course dinner. In between some of the courses the bride would disappear and come back in a different gown, and finally in a Western gown, so she was changing two or three times within the meal. In between each course a fellow student played the banjo and sang something or recited or gave an anecdote, and inevitably... and now Professor Greenwood is here, he will say…
Well, I had no idea what would be appropriate, and I was very conscious of the fact that if you don’t get it right it can be a real social gaffe. So I said something, I don’t even really remember what I said now, but it seemed to be appropriate. But they are very formal when they’re formal, there’s no doubt about that, but they’re also very delightful.